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Pandemic Grief Support Groups

Grief is a natural response to loss—sometimes of a person, sometimes of something else that is dear to us—a pet, a job, health, a marriage. Even, in this season, the loss of a sense of “normal.” Anyone can experience grief and loss, but each person’s journey through grief is unique and it is never easy. An important factor in healing from loss and developing resilience is having the support of other people.

Whether you are grieving the loss of a loved one or experiencing another situation that feels like loss, a small group can provide compassionate support and guidance as you journey through your unique experience. A group of companions on a parallel path can offer a place to talk about loss, be assured that what you’re feeling is “normal,” and gain support from others who are in a similar situation. Participation in this group can help you move on to healing through spiritual and emotional growth.

This fall, LAUMC will offer small groups that focus on grief and the coping skills needed for this season. If you have any questions, contact Megan Allende.

Group 1: Grieving the Loss of a Loved One

Sundays, starting October 18, 3:30–4:45pm: This group will provide support for those who are grieving the loss of a loved one. It will meet for 6 weeks, starting with one meeting in person (socially distanced) on the Los Altos campus, followed by weekly meetings online. Dave Beggs and Senior Pastor Kathi McShane will lead.

Canceled: Group 2: Grief From Other Losses

Thursdays, starting October 15, 5:00–6:30pm: This group will provide support for those who are experiencing grief from other kinds of losses. It will meet for 6 weeks, starting with one meeting in person (socially distanced) on the Los Altos campus, followed by weekly meetings online. Dave Beggs and Senior Pastor Kathi McShane will lead.

Group 3: Fear and Loathing in 2020

Thursdays, starting October 15, 5:00–6:30pm: This group will help participants increase resilience in difficult times by developing better coping skills and strengthening faith. It will meet for 5 weeks, starting with one meeting in person (socially distanced) on the Los Altos campus, followed by weekly meetings online. Associate Pastor Jeong Park and Susie Buchholz will lead.

Good Grief Group Starts in January

After the loss of a loved one, we all need a support system to help us as we move through our grief journey. Find support and healing as your cope with your loss in a six-week support group. Save the date for LAUMC’s next Good Grief Support Group: Sundays, January 19 – March 2, 7:00–8:30pm in the Redwood Room. Space is limited; please register online. Contact Megan Allende with questions.

Congregational Care Minister Training Starts April 8

Do you have a gift for listening to those needing an ear or those who are lonely? Do you have a compassionate heart for those going through tough situations? Are you being called into ministry caring for others? Congregational Care Ministers, or CCMs, are a team of trained lay volunteers who use their gifts and graces to partner in ministry with the clergy and staff to provide care for our congregation. Congregational care is critical in every local church, and no one person can address all the hurt of a congregation or community. This partnership between lay and clergy enables LAUMC to provide a more consistent and deeper level of care to our church family.

LAUMC will hold a training for new CCMs on Sundays, April 8 – May 20, 11:15am–12:30pm in the Resource Center. With this training, you will be empowered to make hospital visits, telephone persons in need of contact, meet one-on-one with persons in need of a listening ear for prayer and encouragement, offer support to grieving families, and proactively seek to encourage and care for persons in need. Training topics include organizational development, Wesleyan Way of Care, boundaries and ethical practices, listening, older adult ministry, hospital visits, death, and prayer.

Registration is limited. Early bird pricing of $40 is available through March 8, then the cost will increase to $50. You can register on our website.